I don't mind a little clutter, in fact, I think it's healthy. My self-worth has never been wrapped up in material things; however, when things get very cluttered and messy my productivity is hampered and I find it oppressive. I simply do not need to search for literally 30+ minutes to find something I need because it was dumped somewhere. Nor do I need to negotiate piles of boxes to get to the washing machine. (Not to mention, my spine does not need to do the bending, lifting and stairs in my house.) Trying to keep up with things took a toll on my back & cervical spine and, after a while, I physically couldn't do it any more.
What can I say? I can ask, request, demand or just plain get angry, but in the end, some people will do what they do. While I can list many, many wonderful things about my family and am very proud of my two children, minding my requests for a bit of organization was not in that list. So, reality is reality and I am doing what I can to clean up this mess. I do need to acknowledge that my children, though late in the game, have stepped up to the plate and are helping whenever they can. Ahhh....maturity!
Some of the things I found when cleaning out the basement:
- Yarn & material I purchased 10+ years ago. Off to Goodwill.
- Kids toys I wonder why I ever saved. Goodwill.
- My lesson plans using overheads from back in the day before everyone had PP. In the Trash.
- Crap I didn't even know I had. Trash.
- Furniture I will never repair. Goodwill / Trash
- Clothes so old and outdated that even poor people would refuse to be seen wearing them. Trash
- Boxes to every cell phone that we have ever owned. Trash
- Literally boxes and boxes and grocery bags full of old bills (presumably paid) and junk mail spanning twenty years (I had no idea...). Burn/Shred
The strong box. Hallelujah! Could it contain what I'd been looking for? With anticipation, I opened the box and....
- The house papers - not there
- The car titles - nope
- The insurance papers - nope
- Other important papers - nope
- Awh hell, 50 cents even - nope
I'm enjoying following your journey. As an embroiderer I can relate to the multiple projects and the unused yarn and material.
ReplyDeleteYou must be feeling a whole lot better with what you've accomplished up to now. I can't wait to hear what else you uncover. You never know, there might be a hidden treasure that turns out to be worth a lot of money.
Keep digging and above-all keep writing!